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My wife insists that since her name is on my account, (my dependent), that she has the right to access, and discuss my financial affairs with regional va....she recently claimed that she spoke with...
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Mizlyne wrote:Your wife cannot access your information without your consent and the VA will not split your payment unless a court orders it in a divorce or custody case.Information at the DVA comes in...
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MR. BI have a slightly personal question. Does your wifey drink. If so this could be the problem. try to get her into a detox program if youcan persuade her to do so. Even yourself, If you have an...
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There is no way that the VA will discuss your account with her, UNLESS, you have signed a "Power of Attorney" that allows her to represent you. There is every possibility that she is making this...
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Cav1SG, the military considers spouses as third parties, only servicemembers are privy to their information. No information can be provided to the spouse without the servicemember's express consent....
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thanks for all of your responses.70% ptsd10% broncitis10% osteoarthritisShe does have bi-polar and I have been trying to get someone to see her behaviors as "borderline personality disorder".. she...
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don't assume a judge can't assign any of your VA comp to her it happens a lot of the times especially as long as you 2 have been married a lot of states allow Judges to set alimony based on ALL income...
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in viewing the apportionment link, I can now see where she thinks she can force money from me...all of it!she is faulted in her thinking. what i read says basically she would have to prove that i...
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in viewing the apportionment link, I can now see where she thinks she can force money from me...all of it!she is faulted in her thinking. what i read says basically she would have to prove that i...
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$2300 dollar rent .....WOW ! ...where do you live? What the family seems to be doing is attempting to manipulate you,dont fall for it. You said that your wife is bipolar,many folks that are...
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I understand dealing with ex wives that expect something from nothing I have been divorced 4 times trust me I understand getting it stuck to me by the divorce court judges all I am saying is do not...
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Mr B, you wrote "I apologize for the length and unneccessarry bits and pieces... i really needed to vent. I have no friends and i can't keep telling my doctor all of this stuff because we never get to...
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I would get the new bank account without her name and change your direct deposit.Then get the lawyer if you can but either way if dragged into court tell the Judge you had to do this JUST to pay the...
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The whole family ganging up on you sounds like abuse of a disabled person to me. The disabled person being you in this case. Turn it around on them and get your own account and begin separating your...
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I would get a voice actived tape recorder and record them yelling at you like that. My heart goes out to you because NO ONE should suffer in this manner. If these kids can't see what their mother is...
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I agree with AM. Dis. Get as much evidence as you can, tapes, photos, medical records for prescription drugs she is taking, testimony from others that know your situation and so no.Having a disability...
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the rent is for a six bedroom house with separate 3 bdrm apartment downstairs... in tigard oregon.. i pay 1300, and my daughter pays 1000.... but we all know how that can go...as for the bi polar,...
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oh no,, They all think that because I don't think like they do, I am the one with the problem,, and I must not care about them!like i say, they take after their mother,, completely! my 17 yo son is...
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Sounds like you and I must have the same wife. Your wife must be looking at VA letters that have been mailed to you in which she intercepted without you ever seeing it.The letter may have contained...
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